Dating a man 20 years younger than me
‘Even though we get rude comments from friends and family, and even random strangers, we want people to know that loving someone means so much more than just a number.’ Since starting their relationship, the pair claim that they regularly encounter rude comments from strangers as well as friends and family.Kayla, who is currently looking for work, explains: ‘We have received a lot of rude comments, mostly from my family and a few other people.20-year-old Kayla Pratt first met her future fiancé, Robert Longo Jr, 49, in March 2018 when she was asked by her mother to drop him back home after a friendly get-together at her house.The pair found themselves falling in love as the drop-offs became more frequent." data-medium-file="https://shawglobalnews.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/21652279.jpg? quality=70&strip=all&w=300" data-large-file="https://shawglobalnews.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/21652279.jpg? quality=70&strip=all&w=1024" / Madeleine Westerhout, secretary to U. President Trump, stands outside the Oval Office at the White House in Washington, DC, USA, . (AP Photo/Patrick Semansky) " data-medium-file="https://shawglobalnews.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/njps407-818_2019_204344.jpg? quality=70&strip=all&w=300" data-large-file="https://shawglobalnews.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/njps407-818_2019_204344.jpg? " data-medium-file="https://shawglobalnews.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/21648694.jpg? quality=70&strip=all&w=300" data-large-file="https://shawglobalnews.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/21648694.jpg? quality=70&strip=all&w=1024" / President Donald Trump speaks with reporters before boarding Air Force One with first lady Melania Trump at Morristown Municipal Airport in Morristown, N. Even though this guy and I were 25 years apart, we had a lot in common. I didn't know then that our age gap would define the relationship. I got that; but even though I knew there was no future, I didn’t cut it off completely. After it ended, he talked to a lot of people about our relationship -- and what happened through the grapevine was unexpected. Women judged me as having an ulterior, economic motive: “She just dated him for his money,” or “She thought she could get ahead.” In our society people are so quick to judge a young, naïve woman -- never the older man who perhaps should’ve known better too. We worked in the same profession, had similar interests, and shared common philosophical views. So what if he was wrinkly, in all the places you might expect? There was zero jealousy on both sides, and I never saw him check out another woman -- due to him being satisfied, of course, but also him being well-seasoned in how to respect the opposite sex. Another lesson in dating: a fling with someone in your professional/personal circle is more often than not bad news. I have a friend who’s been married to someone for more than a decade who is 20 years older than her.
‘I have a one-year-old daughter and Robert has acted as her father her whole life, so she doesn’t think anything of it.’ The couple plan on having children of their own together in the future.Kayla, from Humboldt County, California, US, said: ‘We met through my mother because I would drive him home from the family house after he’d visit so he wouldn’t have to walk two miles.‘At first, we were just friends and liked the fact we were both very non-judgmental – we weren’t even looking for a relationship at this time.I grew up the only child of older parents (who are also 10 years apart), and often felt like an awkward old lady trapped inside a teeny-bopper’s body. I admit, I wasn’t as physically attracted to him as I had been to other partners. Have you ever seen a girl with a hideous boyfriend and thought, “Seriously, how the f$*k did he pull that off? Either he's just a nice friggin’ dude; or being with him boosts her self-confidence. In my case, the age gap was actually a cavernous black hole defying space and time. He’s old and sick now, and she takes care of him (even financially), but she’s still partying and sleeping around. I sometimes imagine what would have happened if I had stayed with my older man. The last I heard, my older ex was in a tumultuous relationship with another 20-something, this time a singer reminiscent of Björk.