Dating advice when to call after first date
He asks me out for a second date, and takes down my phone number.
He even talks specifics for the next date (what day, what we might do).
Suggesting something (other than going back to someone's place) after dinner is a solid indication that your date's asking for an encore.
"A masochist like myself might ask a girl to spend more time with him if he's not enjoying her company," Santos says, but if they're willing to extend the date past the "easy out" first location of a bar or coffee shop, that's a good sign."Sometimes I get so excited during a first date I play my cards by suggesting other things we should do together," says Santos, though timing may not be that immediate.
When you start dating someone and haven't established exclusivity, says Santos, it's always important to measure signs that the other person is as on-board as you are.
This could mean making regular conversation or establishing dates at a consistent frequency.
When your date wants to spend time with you alone instead of calling in backup for a group date, says Santos, it likely means that he's comfortable around you and wants to spend more time getting to know you.
…and what is the rationale behind asking a girl out and then never calling?
A common time to suggest another date is at the end of the first one.
Some may do this as a friendly gesture before making a quick exit, says Santos, but it can't be bad if your date is enthusiastic enough to suggest a second meet-up. A good sign that a date went *really* well, says Santos, is when someone giddily follows up after a date to let you know they had a great time without waiting around.
"Most people are courteous enough to do the absolute minimum on a date: finish whatever activity you're doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person," he says.
So provided your date's not running out with an "emergency text from a roommate" after twenty minutes, it's an easy first sign that things are going well.
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