Dating is wrong
She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry.
She's a cliche lover of wine, sushi, all things Parisian and spiking her coffee with Baileys.
She explains that this can be range from convincing yourself he's just busy at work to coming up with elaborate scenarios for him not replying back.
Overly-wishful thinking makes sense if it happens once with a guy you really like.
Some of the best advice I received from a friend was to “clean out my closet” when it came to holding on to past relationship baggage, but I also feel it’s applicable here as well.
This guy changes his mind about you and the relationship all the time.
What started off as pure romantic bliss has turned into him threatening to break up every time you do that bothers him. Greenberg explains that this behavior is a form of narcissism, and that he can't see his partners beyond being either a completely flawless soul mate, or a wholly bad person.
But you’re going to need to be truly open to win at the game of love, and it starts by letting go of the wrong guys to leave room for the right ones to catch you.
Andrea Wesley Andrea is a Thirty-Something freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada with her ridiculous ginger tabby, Jagger.
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It’s necessary to take a breather to reflect on yourself and re-evaluate what you really want and how you’re going to change your approach to get there. No one likes to be strung along just for the sake of something to do, and if you’ve ever been in this position, you’ll know it’s a pretty crappy place to be.