" She laughed and said, "I just might do that," which told me she found him attractive without her admitting it.
That Friday night, she and I talked more about him as we watched TV from our couch. He has blond hair and blue eyes." In other words, nothing like me. Perhaps unconsciously, her hand massaged her groin as we talked.
This was golden for a year or two until women started using it for ego gratification, creating accounts to get lots of virtual praise from guys who approve of their looks, with no intention of hooking up or ever dating.
The most interesting part of Tinder was that horny women looking for a one night stand called it "short term dating" so they didn't feel slutty.
Typically curious about what attracted her, I asked what he looked like. Her eyes rolled up, staring at the ceiling, and she said, "And we seem to like same books and movies." I would learn later what she left out.
When a man is described as "cute," I think of a guy with a slight build; he isn't.
It's all the sex and intimacy everyone enjoys without the nagging and head games that eventually wreck relationships.
A regular hookup is about quality time, not death spirals of quantity time that generate boredom from predictability.
Unfortunately the high percentage of girls who are only on Tinder to get the acceptance of being swiped right means we're back to the tried and true approach of internet dating.Each meeting is an appreciative peak with mutual comfort is knowing where you're at and getting what you want.If you're free and looking for fun, a fuckbuddy relationship is perfect for you.Mutual attraction is great, but if she's just using the service for personal validation then she's just wasting your time for her selfish aims.It's better to be with a community that is honest about wanting to hook up.