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Larivadeanz, Not worth even finding out if he wants to make it work and such. I found him on American Bisexuals..was stupid enough to show his face/posted that he was BI-wanted hookups/long term 1 on 1 with CD, Trans, Cross-Dressers, Females, Males.could accommodate for transportation.Moving outta this relationship is the best option here. Take sometime to accept this, grieve and then recover. I know what its like I had a gay boyfriend and he did not tell me until months later. I made a profile and he actually wanted to have web cam mutual ***** w/me.I love him and care about him so much but after finding all the accounts..is it.I don't know what to do anymore, I literally cannot trust him and it kills me.But thats how I know he is lying, that it isnt old news and he is still doing it. I love him so much but I feel disgusted, from the lies, wondering if when we are intimate if he wishes I was a man and if he had or will act on it. it's like I need to know whether this person has been a clever nasty piece of work to somebody who is beautiful to him or whether he's been really confused. I love him and I trust him fully but, when we went on vacation recently I found accidentally on his social network account all the recent searches of bisexual pages (about 3 of those) and a bisexual person we both know personally. I don't want to ruin our vacation so instead I acted normal but I felt so broken inside. The night after that, I confronted him and asked him if there's something I need to know, to make it short, he said that it was his gay friend who have been using it, whom I know.I dont want to lose him but I dont want to be "that girl" who has to regularly check on him and spy. as we confused because it was me that raise the question during the relationship which for the first time I think made him think about his own sexuality I don't know have a fool. I just wanna share this bec I think I have the same situation. Also, at that same day my curiousity brought me to check his mobile phone's recent activities to my surprise I found out a dating website on his browser which was on private search. We cried that night, it was heartbreaking and he said he isn't gay and that he sees me as someone he will spend the rest of his life with and he loves me very much. Sorry to say this but you need to run the other way. It's hard to admit the truth, even when it slaps you in the face.
I can understand people struggling with sexuality but lying and betraying is unforgivable. Been with the same guy for almost 3 years and it started out with him cheating/flirting with girls behind my back (sex, hanging out, messaging), then being emotionally/physically abusive, to most recently having mutilple subscriptions to straight & gay hookups sites, he even made a Grindr. I would always find out way later on and be crushed, then he would try to apologize and be emotional then expect me to move on from it quickly. We are committed and we have been together a while.I cannot admit to snooping in his computer to find evidence of this but now that I know (and on this particular site you can see that he is logging in almost daily) do you think it's just to get his jollies online or does it sound like I have to worry about him leaving or cheating.I don't even know if he's bisexual or has slept with a guy.He claims he never did, he only admitted to making the accounts and chatting with a few guys but never meeting up or having sex.