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First, pregnant women, menstruating women, and warriors in preparation for hunts/battles did not engage in sex. women, in that they were more-or-less free to hump whomever they chose, as long as it wasn't incestuous.These things "involved strict rules" because of their connection to blood, which the Cherokees understood to be "life" and "spirit" (James Adair; Theda Perdue). Cherokee historian James Adair also understood Cherokee women to be allowed the honor of promiscuity, noting that there were no punishments for adulterous women.Men could have multiple wives (usually two and usually sisters or cousins, ie two women from the same clan).That was another thing Euro-American missionaries complained about all the time.
I'm not sure if this holds true as much in Cherokee society however, as there were strict laws against incest, and they recognized marrying someone from your biological father's clan as incest, as well as from your mother's clan.
Cheating was frowned on and punishable among the Creeks (neighbors of the Cherokee), while the Cherokee allowed both women and men relative sexual freedom of lovers, although women could not marry multiple men or keep concubines. Although the gender division of labor is different than that of contemporary European societies, I can't find any clear evidence for a third gender among the Cherokee specifically.
They were common in Indigenous societies, however."When a young man had chosen a girl he wished to marry he would kill a deer and bring an offer of deer meat to the home of the girl he was interested in.
According to Charles Hudson's 1976 book The Southeastern Indians, drawing from James Mooney's ethnographic work, in general in the region a young man would send his mother's sister to speak to a young woman's mother's sister.
The girl's mother's sister would speak to the girl's matrilineage about the idea, often without telling the girl.